What you need to do is write a VBS custom action to read the Xml configuration parameters and set them as MSI properties. See the customization VBS example below.
WiX CustomAction: SetProperties.vbs
Sub SetProperties
strXmlConfigFile = Session.Property("XMLCONFIG")
Set objDoc = CreateObject("msxml2.DOMDocument.3.0")
objDoc.Load(strXmlConfigFile)
Session.Property("MYFUNKYPROP") = objDoc.selectSingleNode("/root/Parameter[@name='Something']").text
Set objDoc = Nothing
End Sub
WiX fragment example:
<Wix xmlns="http://schemas.microsoft.com/wix/2003/01/wi">
<Fragment Id="SetProperties">
<Binary Id="SETPROPERTIES" SourceFile="SetProperties.vbs" />
<CustomAction Id="SetProperties" BinaryKey="SETPROPERTIES" VBScriptCall="SetProperties" Execute="immediate" />
<InstallExecuteSequence>
<Custom Action="SetProperties" After="LaunchConditions" />
</InstallExecuteSequence>
</Fragment>
</Wix>